Steps you can take to be prepared.
Ah, yes. The gift card scam. It’s common enough that it has a name.
The good news, though, is that it’s common enough that we can identify some characteristics to look for to prevent it from happening again.
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Protecting yourself from scams
The best way to protect yourself from scams is to employ basic account security, like strong passwords and two-factor authentication, and to be skeptical at all times. Some scams have specific characteristics, like using gift cards or asking for remote access that make them easy to spot and avoid.
Basic security comes first
As outlined in my most important article — Internet Safety: 7 Steps to Keeping Your Computer Safe on the Internet — the best defense is something you put into place before you need it. It includes:
- Keeping things up to date.
- Scanning for malware.
- Keeping yourself educated.
- Securing your network.
- Securing your equipment physically.
- Backing up.
It’s #3 that scammers exploit. If they can fool you, they can bypass all the other security you have in place, no matter how good.
Signs of scams
Scammers love gift cards for two important reasons:
- They’re generally not traceable.
- They’re not refundable.
They’re the closest thing there is to handing the scammer your cold hard cash.
It’s not that gift cards are bad — they’re not. Use them for their intended purpose: giving gifts to people or organizations you know. But if someone specifically asks you to give them money as a gift card, that should be a huge red flag. Ditto for asking you to wire money or use Western Union to transfer money.
That’s when it’s time to be skeptical and at least ask questions. Not by responding to a scam email — as you saw, the scammer replies saying, “Sure, everything’s all right, it’s really me, honest!” In scenarios such as yours, reach out to the person using some other means. You might even pick up the phone and call them.
The same is true of the “remote access scam” where someone contacts you and offers to “fix” your computer if you’ll give them remote access. Again, remote access tools are not bad, but how the scammers use them can be. Never grant access to someone you don’t know who has called you rather than vice versa. Period.
The most important rule: be skeptical
Scams are not new. From counterfeiters to snake-oil salespeople, con artists and more, scams and scammers have probably existed since the dawn of humanity. Our increasing interconnection, particularly on the internet, has made it easier than ever to scam people and evade capture.
The most important thing you can do is to always be skeptical. Question everything.
- If “they” contact you, and not the other way around, make sure you are absolutely certain you know who “they” are before you trust them.
- If it sounds too good to be true, it’s not true.
- If it sounds desperate or very time sensitive, get independent confirmation by some other means.
- If you’re just not sure, even a little, ask a knowledgeable friend for help. Better safe than very, very sorry.
But above all, don’t let anyone take advantage of your kind nature. Being skeptical and making sure you’re helping who you think you are is kindness as well.
If you find you’ve fallen for a scam, there is no shame. It happens to the best of us.
Report it to the various agencies involved: the police, your credit card company, and whatever else may have been involved or compromised in the process. If other people are involved in helping you with your technology, let them know as well. There may be ramifications you’re unaware of.
If you see a scam but know enough to avoid it, I don’t recommend taking any additional action. There are those who say reporting it to your local authorities can help, but I’m… skeptical. These scams are so broad and common that I’m sure the authorities are well aware. My take is to ignore it, delete it or mark it as spam, as appropriate, and get on with your life.
Be skeptical. Seriously, that’s my single most important takeaway here. If you remember nothing else, remember to be skeptical. Familiarize yourself with specifics like the gift card scam and the remote access scam, if you like, but it’s skepticism that will protect you from the scams that aren’t even dreamed of yet.
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