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3 Important Life Lessons from a 99-year-old Blogger

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Feeling like you're "too old"? I'd like to introduce you to someone who inspires me.

One of the common refrains I hear, sometimes explicitly but more often inferred from the way people ask me questions, is being “too old”.

It’s not my favorite thing to hear, as I’ve written before.

If you feel you’re “too old”, I’d like to introduce you to someone.

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Lessons with age

Engaging with Aging is a blog authored by 99-year-old Doris Carnevali. She sets an inspirational example of three important lessons for us all: It’s never too late. We all have something to share. Never stop learning. She’s the 99-year-old I aspire to be.

Engaging with Aging

Doris Carnevali is a blogger. Several times a week, she publishes new posts on her blog, Engaging With Aging.

She’s a retired nursing school teacher who recently turned 99 years old.

About a year and a half ago, she was profiled on a local television station.

Spend some time on her blog, and you’ll find her chronicling the challenges and changes that come with aging. If you’re expecting complaints, you’ll be disappointed.

Sure, there are times when I’m down and the 14th thing I drop in a day makes me frustrated as all get out. But on the whole, it is so much more exciting than I ever thought it was going to be. Boring? No.

Doris is an inspiration.

Lesson #1: It’s never too late

I had been ranting about the fact that I thought aging had gotten a rotten deal and it was much more pleasant, more exciting and more challenging than I had been led to believe in books and experience too.

A University of Washington dean encouraged her to capture her thoughts online.

So she started a blog.

At the young age of 95.

It’s almost literally true: it’s never too late. The old entrepreneur’s adage holds: the best time to start something is 10 years ago. The second best time is now.

Lesson #2: We all have something to share

Her nursing background gives Doris an excellent perspective on what it means to grow older. Her journey is both uniquely hers and something of incredible value to others who follow. Simply sharing her experiences and her approach to aging becomes a resource for many.

She’s even coined her own acronym: ARC, for “age-related changes”1. It’s a touchstone concept that she references often.

As valuable as her experience is, her attitude adds even more.

My hands don’t pick up things the way I used to. Do I say I’m losing my hands? No, I’m changing how I use them. And that way I don’t get down in the dumps.

There are many ARCs at 99, as you can imagine. Her approach to each is both informative and inspirational.

Lesson #3: Never stop learning

It’s more than just learning to blog at 95. It’s more than dealing with the changes in your own capabilities.

It’s about always seeing the world as an opportunity for growth.

I’m still growing, I’m green!

Not only do I feel that way, but I hope to never not feel that way.

We all still have a lot of growing left in us.

What about you?

I am honored to count among my readers several who are at or near Ms. Carnevali’s age.

Regardless of your age, I hope that by hearing her story, you’ll see that age, in and of itself, need not be a deterrent to staying active and engaged with the world. Accept and accommodate the ARCs in your life as you go along. Let others in. Contribute where and how you can.

It’s never too late.

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Footnotes & References

1: At least I think she coined it.

4 comments on “3 Important Life Lessons from a 99-year-old Blogger”

  1. Thank you for posting this. This just hit the nail on the head for me today. I’m 65 and counting and I’m not stupid but some days it feels like I am. So I will go forth with good heart and keep on trucking. Thank you again for posting this. Barbara

    • I’m 71 and one of the things that keeps me feeling young mentally is working for Ask Leo! and teaching a couple of afternoons a week. Having mental and/or physical challenges goes a long way to promoting physical and mental health.

  2. I turned 80 last summer and at first it felt like being hit by a truck. (I’m how old???!!!) I don’t feel 80, though, and I totally agree with the article and applaud Doris for not feeling old and encouraging others with her blog. You are truly only as old as you feel.

  3. I’m not in Doris’ age group yet at only 89 (for a few more weeks), but working on getting up there. The challenge that has helped me and my young wife (only 76) is working with our dogs. With COVID cramping our style for now, we live in hopes that herding lessons and trials will be able to resume soon, for us and our currently bored Bearded Collies. (Beardies are best, Leo, although Corgis may not be far behind.) I just upgraded my car to be ready to travel again, (the old Freestar having passed it’s best-by date). Next may be a new computer, though I don’t look forward to giving up Windows 7 for W10. Doris, you are an inspiration to those of us following not far behind you. So keep on trucking, and keep telling us about it in your blog.


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