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“Is It Possible” Is the Wrong Question

Anything is possible.

Anything is Possible

Yes, it's possible. But you might want to ask a different question that will result in a more helpful answer.

I get a lot of questions starting with the phrase, “Is it possible…”

“Is it possible I’ve been hacked?”

“Is it possible to recover an email from 10 years ago?”

“Is it possible that my video chats are being recorded?”

The list goes on.

There are two problems with these questions: they all have the same answer, and they’re all the wrong questions to be asking.

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Is it possible?

Anything is possible. Expecting only a yes/no answer to a technical question will cause you to lose important nuance relating to your specific situation. You must remember that possible is not the same as likely, and that whether something is likely is a much more important question to ask.

The answer is always “Yes”

Anything is possible.

I mean that very literally; when it comes to technology, if you can conceive of it, it’s almost certainly within the realm of possibility.

Yes, it is possible you’ve been hacked.

Yes, it is possible you may be able to recover a ten-year-old email.

Yes, it is possible your video chats are being recorded.

Almost every question I get asked that begins with the phrase “is it possible” always has the same answer: yes.

Yes, it is possible. Anything is possible.

This isn’t a helpful answer. You’re asking the wrong question.

The correct question is, “How likely is it?”

If anything is truly possible, then what we really want to know is how likely something is.

“How likely is it I’ve been hacked?”

“How likely is it I can recover an email from 10 years ago?”

“How likely is it my video chats are being recorded?”

The problem, of course, is that we want simplicity. We want yes or no answers.

A yes or no answer is an absolute. It makes our decisions easier.

“How likely” is a probability, a chance. Rather than being absolute yes or absolute no, the answer lies somewhere in between.

And that’s where things get messy.

The answer becomes “It depends”

How likely it is you’ve been hacked depends on things like your situation, the clues leading you to raise the question, your personal security measures, your own common sense, the services you use, the hardware you use, and the security involved in each. Even with the best security, it’s unlikely, but still possible, that you could be hacked.

How likely it is that you can recover a ten-year-old email depends on things like your email provider, how they back up, whether or not you backed up, what email program you use, how it’s configured, and even whether or not you have a court order in hand to force recovery of information. If the stars all align, it’s possible, but generally very unlikely.

How likely it is your video chats are being recorded depends on things like what country you live in, what technology you’re using, how trustworthy the person at the other end is, and more. Depending on those things, it could be very likely that your chat is being recorded somewhere, or it could be extremely unlikely.

There are no “yes or no” answers because everything depends on the specifics of the situation.

And every situation is different.

Why this matters

If you’re just looking for an absolute yes or no answer, you’re missing important nuances. The devil is in the details, and the only way to make an informed decision is to understand more of the ramifications of those details lost when all you have is a yes/no expectation.

Depending on the details, you may realize it’s highly unlikely you’ve been hacked, and need take no further action. On the other hand, you may realize you need to act and act quickly because indeed, you probably are being hacked.

Depending on the details of the services provided by your email provider, your own backups, and perhaps even the law, it might be worth trying to get that ten-year-old email back. Or you might realize it would be an almost impossible waste of time and/or money and choose to move on without it.

Depending on who you’ve been chatting with over video and the details of how it was done, you might decide to avoid that medium in the future, or you might elect to continue to use it as an effective way to communicate.

It all depends on the details, and it all depends on your understanding that those details matter.

Life is messy

It’s uncomfortable to get “maybe” or “it depends” as an answer. It can even be frustrating.

But it’s reality.

Ironically, in a world built on ones and zeros, it’s exceedingly rare to get a simple yes or no answer to questions of any consequence. Keeping that in mind can help you use technology more productively, get help more effectively, and understand the answers that all too often begin with “It depends on…”

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4 comments on ““Is It Possible” Is the Wrong Question”

  1. I would like to note that this does not apply only to technology, but to life itself. Is it possible I’ll with the lottery, marry Miss America, and live happily ever after? Yes, but it’s unlikely.

    If only people would think like this all the time!

  2. If this artical is to do with an auto sorting program I can understand.
    Otherwise I think you may have had a bad day and were feeling testy because it seems trivial and is just splitting hairs don’t you think?

    • “Auto sorting program”? Now that comment I don’t understand. How does that relate.

      No, this is more an observation of 14+ years of doing Ask Leo!. Answering questions is just part of the job. One of my ulterior motives is to also help people understand their technology and learn to ask the right questions so as not to get quite as frustrated with both the situations they encounter and some of the answers they’ll get. In my experience people really do want “yes” or “no” answers, and it’s important to understand why those can’t be had, and when they really need to worry (which is not usually :-) ).

    • As one who answers questions, often I’m tempted to sarcastically answer yes to an “Is it possible?” question and leave it at that. After all, it is the correct answer to that question.


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